yeah like being gay. people act like it's a kink, like it's a choice you make, but that's not how that works at all. being gay is just letting yourself be who you are, right? i mean, that's the impression i've gotten, anyway.
no, i know that. petplay is when you pretend you're the pet. like if we were doing it, i'd get you a collar and you'd sit at my feet and i'd pet your hair and tell you you're a good boy. we wouldn't necessarily be having sex, though i think some people do use it for sex stuff, i'd just be treating you like you were my dog.
maybe some people like it to be demeaning, but i'm sure other people don't. i don't know about you, but i wouldn't demean my dog. i'd love my dog, honestly more than i'd love most people. people suck. dogs are great.
also, some people are into hitting and spitting and that seems way more demeaning, if you ask me.
[ Knowing Steve, it's probably both. He's probably super vanilla, only fucks with the lights off and the covers pulled up. That's...nice. At least she knows he shows his girls a good time, or at least, that's what all the rumors say. That probably makes up for a lack of imagination. Not that Eddie would know. ]
yeah i don't really get it either, but if everyone's in on it and nobody's getting hurt it's a very "to each their own" kind of situation. in my opinion, at least.
presumably because they asked you to. idk i don't really get the hitting thing either but there are some things that hurt a little that could hurt just the right way. like a tattoo. it hurts, but it kind of feels good too, and you're getting hurt for a good purpose.
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no, i know that. petplay is when you pretend you're the pet. like if we were doing it, i'd get you a collar and you'd sit at my feet and i'd pet your hair and tell you you're a good boy. we wouldn't necessarily be having sex, though i think some people do use it for sex stuff, i'd just be treating you like you were my dog.
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also, some people are into hitting and spitting and that seems way more demeaning, if you ask me.
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[Maybe that comes down to the fact he got enough demeaning and harassing experience from his parents.]
Dogs are great. And I don't really get it I guess. Other than wanting affection.
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[ Knowing Steve, it's probably both. He's probably super vanilla, only fucks with the lights off and the covers pulled up. That's...nice. At least she knows he shows his girls a good time, or at least, that's what all the rumors say. That probably makes up for a lack of imagination. Not that Eddie would know. ]
yeah i don't really get it either, but if everyone's in on it and nobody's getting hurt it's a very "to each their own" kind of situation. in my opinion, at least.
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But to each their own, yeah.
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so. no kinks? really?
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