i bet it exists somewhere. you can achieve it if you keep dreaming. i believe in you. i also have spare handcuffs if it doesn't work out and you decide to stick to your fall-back.
fine, mom. i won't drive off the road because of a spider anymore, jeez.
because everyone does? like people seem to think that kinks can only be the really hardcore stuff, but that's a really reductionist view of things. if anything can be a kink, that just opens up your horizons completely. don't you think?
well we both know that's a lie because we've just been over what your kinks are. but alright, fine, maybe you don't know your fallbacks yet. what do you think about when you get off?
[ Is this a weird thing to talk about? Yes. Eddie's aware maybe she should shut the fuck up already, but apparently her habit of blurting out things that aren't really appropriate translates to her typing as well as just talking, because she can't stop herself from hitting send even though she knows she should.
yeah, man. a lot of them are just weird alternative lifestyles that get labeled pejoratively as kinks because society has an extremely narrow view of what is or isn't accepted.
yeah like being gay. people act like it's a kink, like it's a choice you make, but that's not how that works at all. being gay is just letting yourself be who you are, right? i mean, that's the impression i've gotten, anyway.
no, i know that. petplay is when you pretend you're the pet. like if we were doing it, i'd get you a collar and you'd sit at my feet and i'd pet your hair and tell you you're a good boy. we wouldn't necessarily be having sex, though i think some people do use it for sex stuff, i'd just be treating you like you were my dog.
maybe some people like it to be demeaning, but i'm sure other people don't. i don't know about you, but i wouldn't demean my dog. i'd love my dog, honestly more than i'd love most people. people suck. dogs are great.
also, some people are into hitting and spitting and that seems way more demeaning, if you ask me.
[ Knowing Steve, it's probably both. He's probably super vanilla, only fucks with the lights off and the covers pulled up. That's...nice. At least she knows he shows his girls a good time, or at least, that's what all the rumors say. That probably makes up for a lack of imagination. Not that Eddie would know. ]
yeah i don't really get it either, but if everyone's in on it and nobody's getting hurt it's a very "to each their own" kind of situation. in my opinion, at least.
presumably because they asked you to. idk i don't really get the hitting thing either but there are some things that hurt a little that could hurt just the right way. like a tattoo. it hurts, but it kind of feels good too, and you're getting hurt for a good purpose.
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I hate how right you are on that point.
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i bet it exists somewhere. you can achieve it if you keep dreaming. i believe in you. i also have spare handcuffs if it doesn't work out and you decide to stick to your fall-back.
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Why do you assume my fallback is bondage?
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because it's a pretty common kink? i dunno, dude, what is your fallback kink?
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Why do I have to have one?
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because everyone does? like people seem to think that kinks can only be the really hardcore stuff, but that's a really reductionist view of things. if anything can be a kink, that just opens up your horizons completely. don't you think?
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I don't have any kinks.
[Meaning 'I have never really had the chance to explore anything so I think I have no kinks']
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well we both know that's a lie because we've just been over what your kinks are. but alright, fine, maybe you don't know your fallbacks yet. what do you think about when you get off?
[ Is this a weird thing to talk about? Yes. Eddie's aware maybe she should shut the fuck up already, but apparently her habit of blurting out things that aren't really appropriate translates to her typing as well as just talking, because she can't stop herself from hitting send even though she knows she should.
Also, admittedly, she is a little curious. ]
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Wow I am NOT talking about that with you.
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And no, don't accuse me of that. I enjoy sex.
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i never said you didn't. i would hope you did, or your reputation as a casanova would be even more depressing than usual. no offense.
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No offense taken.
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like petplay, for example.
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I don't have a pet.
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no, i know that. petplay is when you pretend you're the pet. like if we were doing it, i'd get you a collar and you'd sit at my feet and i'd pet your hair and tell you you're a good boy. we wouldn't necessarily be having sex, though i think some people do use it for sex stuff, i'd just be treating you like you were my dog.
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also, some people are into hitting and spitting and that seems way more demeaning, if you ask me.
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[Maybe that comes down to the fact he got enough demeaning and harassing experience from his parents.]
Dogs are great. And I don't really get it I guess. Other than wanting affection.
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[ Knowing Steve, it's probably both. He's probably super vanilla, only fucks with the lights off and the covers pulled up. That's...nice. At least she knows he shows his girls a good time, or at least, that's what all the rumors say. That probably makes up for a lack of imagination. Not that Eddie would know. ]
yeah i don't really get it either, but if everyone's in on it and nobody's getting hurt it's a very "to each their own" kind of situation. in my opinion, at least.
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But to each their own, yeah.
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so. no kinks? really?
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